Saturday, February 9, 2013

Out with the Old in with the New

It feels like our life is at a standstill until I think of the things we have been doing. Its been a long winter and I'm happy to be nearing spring. I'm looking forward to warmer weather, going on long walks with Eden, taking her to the park and other outdoor activities.. but mostly I'm excited to have the worlds biggest yard sale. My life feels cluttered!!!! I feel like I'm constantly cleaning and nothing is ever clean.  Anyone else experience that?

Before Eden's birthday, our goal was to finish our basement so that we could use that space for her party. Everything HAPPENED! I was so proud of my husband for pulling through and getting everything he could--done. We had been using the basement as storage since I moved in and he had 5 years of use before I moved in.. so we had a lot of STUFF!  Combining two households has been an adjustment and for whatever reason we hung on to a lot of it. Which meant two or more of EVERYTHING! Totally unnecessary. I'm ready to live like young starving college students that are freshly married and scraping by to have the necessities. I want to be a minimalist.  I really really do!

Those years of storage and accumulated stuff.. had to go somewhere, so during Eden's party.. it ended up in the garage. Urgh! So now we not only have a garage full of stuff but our basement is somehow full of it again too.  My goal for the rest of the winter is to go through everything piece by piece and either donate, throw-away, organize, or sale. End result.. more space and less to pick up! Awe a dream.

We are having carpet installed in the upcoming weeks and we need to clear out the 4 rooms so that this can happen.  We also need to finish the closets (hanging bars and building shelves). My goal for this is to have it all done and organized or gone before new baby southworth is born.  Wish-us-luck

Mike is what I call a dreamer (optimist). I on the other hand am more of a realist (pessimist). We create balance. ;) He has an idea and spends a lot of time talking himself into them, figuring out numbers, internet searches, comparison, and unfortunately rarely fruition. I haven't figured out if it's because I squash his dreams  or if it's because an other idea pushes the first one out before we reach an end. His head is constantly in motion. Either way, it happens OFTEN!!! It really drives me crazy because I eventually invest emotion into his ideas.

His latest idea is to move... again.  Last summer we spent a great amount of time finding a lot, meeting with a designer, and dreaming up our custom home. In the end, the realist trumped the dreamer and we backed out of the lot and decided to refinance and wait 5 years.  6mths later.. he's back in dream mode and wants to buy a new house.  This time I am on board and ready to move. Not because I don't love our house or yard or location, but because our current home only has two bedrooms on the main floor and I can't picture putting either baby in the big empty basement. I want us all to be nestled together on the same floor or at least have the littles off ground level.  STRANGER DANGER!

We have been looking at houses and lots and I'm feeling excited... Mike has recruited me into his dreams. I just hope to get rid of half the stuff we own and start my minimalist lifestyle. Less to clean and more time to play with my babies!

I'm ready to throw out the old and make room for the new!

How could these pictures not get me excited?
The master sitting area
Master bath
Spacious Master BR





Dang.. for whatever reason I couldn't upload the rest of the pics. But they are worth seeing so I will try again later.



Friday, February 1, 2013

A Blog for Baby number 2

I started a blog to document our arrival of our 2nd Child
Feel free to get the updates
http://newlittleyou.blogspot.com/